
Support and heat are essential for children in difficult moments. Especially when it comes to their feelings and difficult family circumstances.
Notes of our wonderful Irene – psychologist Center “City of Happy Children”.
“The court postponed …
These words sounded like a death sentence … For three months she waits, and now at least three should stand. This means that for some time the girl will be in uncertainty and hope.
The hope here is that very soon will be as before.
Unfortunately girl still does not understand that past will never happen.
Yes, her mother was alcoholic and sometimes forget about her, but this is her mother. I will not cry, I do not hurt, you need only withstand … hold out a few months and everything will be as before … mom sister and me. I will be even better care for small, learn, cook for us not quarrel …. And I do so many other things, if they would be back in her native walls, sleeping on favorite pillow and sleep in own bed..
Thoughts like bee swarm around Sasha and she could not sleep. This is not her first sleepless night and probably not the last. In her eleven she knows what betrayal and disappointment is how supplant feelings unfortunate move and stand. How to live with this pain and sadness, and how at the same time to find the strength to enjoy the small little things.
Tomorrow morning will rise again and the girl will go to school, will study even to smile and dream, make plans imaginations wander in order not to face the tough reality ….
In such moments of life is the main support, warmth and care on the part of adults. So good that the office of psychologist is the place where girls can show their weakness, vulnerability, express the sadness and pain through tears and pictures. “
