5 Feb, 2015
8 things to do together with your child

Childhood is a time when the baby seems that parents know everything and all is powerful, when the world – new and all – for the first time. What is important to do with your child to remember better childhood?

Childhood is a time when the baby seems that parents know everything and all is powerful, when the world – new and all – for the first time. What is important to do with your child to remember better childhood?

Building plans. Joint debate is important for the future development of the child and his talents. Plans for the future child’s life and career are constantly changing, and the more you discuss with him why he wants to be astronaut / actor / king / hairdresser / musician / doctor etc., the better itself over time understand what is he wants. But you can not just discussing global plans for the future and plans for the weekend. The child will learn to manage your time, in some situations it will save him from unjustified expectations or frustrating wait teach and consciously prepare for important events.

Things to Do: choice of future school or college, a future profession, discussing plans for the upcoming weekend or holiday, you can gather together a trip or vacation, for example, make a list of things you need to take with you.

Violate the ban. At some point, the child’s world is divided into “can” and “can not”, and the last sooner or later he still wants to try, despite the ban. It is better to show by example that some prohibitions – sometimes be violated, and others – will never be violated. For example, you can sometimes eat a box of chocolates or a drink in the cafe harmful soda. The best way to do this is with – for common violations of prohibitions make you two accomplices, which will increase the level of confidence.

Things to Do: very late to bed, recover at night for a walk outside to look at the stars, catch snowflakes language, start dinner with dessert, worn around the apartment, jump on the bed, climb a tree, running barefoot in the rain.

Dream. Common imagination as the immediate future and the distant bring together not only, but also filled with baby aspirations and allow him to see the cause and effect of many things. Through dreams about the future of the family and the future of the child, you will be able to explain to him why it is important to monitor the health, well learn and obey adults. In addition, experts say children whose dreams and imagination is not limited at an early age, more talented, implemented and prone to self-expression.

Things to Do: discuss why you need to learn and go to school, to dream of the future, he will buy something that your child really want to argue, however, your child could become president in which films will act as becomes a famous actor who books write, if a writer who will build a house in which countries will visit and so on …

Discuss problems. The more you talk with your child – the more he will trust you, which is especially important at the time the first fears, problems or difficulties. Try to take everything calmly, even guilt and abuse regime.

Things to Do: discuss the difficulties, complexities, images and instances of misunderstanding – a quarrel with peers in the yard, cause tears or failure, the time spent in kindergarten or in a circle, weekends spent with relatives or a time when you were not around.

To know the world. For a young child’s world – new, he just knows it and learn to interact with it. It is therefore important to do lots of things together when you, as an adult, tell and explain some strange phenomena, such as getting along with the new baby for zoo animals, or looking trees and berries while walking in the woods, fishing or learn to distinguish dangerous mushrooms from edible. You can grow together and go to the museum, and then, at home, once again view reproductions of paintings and read about the artists – so the child learns to delve deeper into the essence of things, and will copy your desire to learn everything new.

In addition, a very important effect of “first time” and your presence near at this time of opening something new.

Things to Do: feed the birds, go to the zoo or dolphinarium, go fishing or stroll in the woods, going to museums and theaters, go to the park to feed the squirrels, sit by the fire and fry bread, cook dinner or bake a cake .

Play. Joint game – a very important pastime already in the early stages of life. When a small child – in the game is more training, development of motor skills and curiosity. Later – a common game not only brings, but will tell the child about time distribution, the difference between “learning” and “game”.

Things to Do: Come favorite games from the desktop to the designers of educational sessions. It is important to play with the baby in role-playing, stay fabulous characters, ghosts, animals or the inhabitants of another world, with all drink tea or build toys with furniture and rugs house and live in it intentionally.

Fooling around – sometimes it’s better to do something very simple and right together. Classes should be as fun and relaxed, and – not peculiar to you as an adult.

Things to Do: tinkering in fall foliage, splash through the puddles, leave footprints on snow body, roll down the ice slide, or taking a bath, make dandelion with soapy hair and be sure to take a picture of the child in this form.

Read more. Shared reading even in very early age brings parents and baby. In the first years of life is important to listen to the voice slow and usually says something, after reading becomes an important common ritual that make better daily and must – be read in the evenings after dinner or before bedtime. Reading as much as help your child develop faster, study and analyze the deeds of heroes and talk, as if he had committed in a given situation. Later common practice reading will later without stress with your child doing school homework.

Things to Do: examine illustrations in books read aloud to your child, after reading – discuss the characters, their quality and the nature of his words and actions, and – coming up with an alternative story or dream on the plot.