
Hello, friends! Work of our Center is not always laughter and joy. We work with an injury, with children who endured the tragedy, pain…
Our psychologists work every day with kids, help them to trust again, again to love adults, again to trust.
Further no comments one of notes of the psychologist Irina Tsiluyko:
“Corridors to the become empty soul are filled again. To league” already “or” only “twelve, and it managed to lose a family, trust to adults and to this world… Now, his life was divided into two parts – life in the Center and later. today, Lisa the beloved daughter, she is loved and appreciated, rejoice that it is, and the girl opens herself and the heart for others, learns to build the relations, and, the main thing, to trust.
Having got to the Center, Lisa skillfully adapted to a situation and an environment. Basic rule of his life: “you want to survive – be on friendly terms!”. And it quickly acquired, accepted and fairly carried out this rule – took what is given, shared opinion of others. She knew as survive, however did not know that such live to want, to dream.
Day after day, Lisa learned herself and about herself, for example, that loves pink color and jeans, adores apples and hates oranges. It seems to you that it is banal things, but it was extremely difficult for girl to learn to make the choice, ever and nobody asked her what she wants!
The way, of a year, was twisting… At first Lisa was a riddle, its perfect behavior guarded… We waited, observed and accepted it. Gradually Lisa understood that she will be in the Center some time and began to show character and behavior, to prove to be also the parties. Changes of behavior were for us in the way to trust. The girl began to react sharply to failures in affairs, on rules and the tutor’s requests, its favourite pose “the head in sand” – so we nicknamed her because it was twisted, sitting in a pose of an embryo and hid the head between knees, passing hair in a bottom. So she hid from the world and the relations. posters – means to show weakness and for what, if it never helped it?
I believe in each child, that she wants to live, to raise and develop. I believe that everyone is capable to change and live differently. I also believed in her, and not for nothing…
To the adult I will remember the first step of Lisa on a meeting forever I then told it about its value, about its importance and asked to take a step on a meeting to me: “help me to you to help!”, And Lisa sat not movably, and I waited. It was so trembling and so careful… At first it lowered legs and moved to me closer, I could embrace it, my hands gently й ironed, Lisa for the first time began to cry, at me on a breast. At this moment doors of heart opened and heat went…”
Let all children will be happy.
